Anger Management Issue? ----Father.?

it sounds like your father is going through menapause. why don't you try not asking him anything. maybe what you dad wants is sometime to spend with you because you are growing up fast. he is probably stressing over somethings that don't even happen to do with you. you know you can always kill him with Kindness. when you see him getting upset, even if it isn't your fault say dad..can I have a hug, sometimes we as parents forget what that feels like coming from someone that rarely gets along with you. i know for a fact I use to be just like your Dad and so did my husband, but one hug or funny gesture from my kids and it would break the ice. maybe he needs some humor, then I also have to wonder if he is saying things like you stated what R U DOING TO PROVOKE him....maybe some family therapy is in order...